PERFECT DATE
Perfect date must be special. I hope my boyfriend is going to organize perfect and surprising date for me.
Early in a morning, he would visit my house and take me to the near cafe for brunch. We can have simple talk about our date plan with a cup of coffee. After the brunch, we would move to nice skii resort and change our clothes for skiing. I am good at snowboarding but don't know how to ride and control my balance on skii, so I am going to learn skiing and teach him snowboarding. It would be extremely exiting to enjoying sport in a
(sorry, I need to learn more future tenses)
Wednesday, 11 January 2012
Franziska
Perfect Date
My perfect date would be with someone I really like, with someone I already have met a couple of times. The person should be very funny und humerous because I really like to laugh. I think if you can laugh with someone it is a very good sign, that this person is someone special.
The perfect date would be in the evening, of course. He would have picked me up by 6.00 pm to go to a restaurant. Then we would drive or walk there, depending on where the restaurant is and how long it would take us to get there. At the restaurant we are going to have dinner, some glasses of wine and hopefully we would have much fun and some interesting conversations.
After we would have finished dinner we probablly would go to the cinema to watch a funny movie or to a rockconcert.
If the date would have been good until the end of the movie or the concert, we would probablly go into a bar or a pub to have some more drinks.
Then we would go home.
My perfect date would be with someone I really like, with someone I already have met a couple of times. The person should be very funny und humerous because I really like to laugh. I think if you can laugh with someone it is a very good sign, that this person is someone special.
The perfect date would be in the evening, of course. He would have picked me up by 6.00 pm to go to a restaurant. Then we would drive or walk there, depending on where the restaurant is and how long it would take us to get there. At the restaurant we are going to have dinner, some glasses of wine and hopefully we would have much fun and some interesting conversations.
After we would have finished dinner we probablly would go to the cinema to watch a funny movie or to a rockconcert.
If the date would have been good until the end of the movie or the concert, we would probablly go into a bar or a pub to have some more drinks.
Then we would go home.
Annie- Catch up- face-to-face
My perfect date would be with someone I know well and we have met eachother before. We feel really comfortable with eachother. Could it be a match !?
Before I arrive, he would have booked a table in a restaurant, chosen by himself. While I'm on my way to the restaurant, he would have waited several minutes before I arrive. We will talk about interesting topics, plans, dreams and we're going to change our opinions and hopefully we would find a lot in common. We also should have the same sense of humour and I'm sure we would have a lovely time while eating our meal. After we finish eating at the restaurant, we will go to a nice place with an amazing view and we are going to continue our catch up face-to-face. While we're wating for the sunset, we would have some drinks and snacks.
Hopefully, we will date again and we will end as a well-matched couple :)
Before I arrive, he would have booked a table in a restaurant, chosen by himself. While I'm on my way to the restaurant, he would have waited several minutes before I arrive. We will talk about interesting topics, plans, dreams and we're going to change our opinions and hopefully we would find a lot in common. We also should have the same sense of humour and I'm sure we would have a lovely time while eating our meal. After we finish eating at the restaurant, we will go to a nice place with an amazing view and we are going to continue our catch up face-to-face. While we're wating for the sunset, we would have some drinks and snacks.
Hopefully, we will date again and we will end as a well-matched couple :)
claire
The perfect date.
The perfect date would start by a nice warm evening with my boyfriend.We will be going on the ocean front to watch the sunset,and we'll be having a stroll along the edge of the water and we'll be playing with the wash.Maybe even a dolphin will come to play with the waves and will be jumping in it.
Then we'll sit on the sand, we'll be drinking a nice sparkling wine while the sun starts to come down the sea.We'll be talking about funny things, and we'll be just enjoying the time we got by ourself in front of this wonderfull landscape.in this perfect date no mosquitos will try to attack us.
When the sun will have disappeared, we'll start to head back to our car, walking barefoot in the sand.
then we'll be having diner on a nice restaurant on the edge of the ocean, and we'll let the sound of the ocean clear our mind and relax us from the stress of the week.
The perfect date would start by a nice warm evening with my boyfriend.We will be going on the ocean front to watch the sunset,and we'll be having a stroll along the edge of the water and we'll be playing with the wash.Maybe even a dolphin will come to play with the waves and will be jumping in it.
Then we'll sit on the sand, we'll be drinking a nice sparkling wine while the sun starts to come down the sea.We'll be talking about funny things, and we'll be just enjoying the time we got by ourself in front of this wonderfull landscape.in this perfect date no mosquitos will try to attack us.
When the sun will have disappeared, we'll start to head back to our car, walking barefoot in the sand.
then we'll be having diner on a nice restaurant on the edge of the ocean, and we'll let the sound of the ocean clear our mind and relax us from the stress of the week.
Debora - perfect date
My perfect date wouldn't necessarily be with the perfect man - a good one would do - but a perfect moment is required. As perfect is something extremely personal, for me it would start with an early knock on my door. Outside I'd see a man, who would be ran out of word for a while; I do not need words to understand certain things: looks and smiles are more than enough.
Perfection might requires a gentleman, so he would have practiced how to be one for while before getting to his date. He would take me for dinner in an fancy, but not uncomfortable, restaurant, where we could talk for a longe time enjoiyng our meal. Then, it would be very interesting going to a quite place, where we could get to know each other without worrying about the crowd. It could be a park, the top of roof of a building... Actually, that would be very interesting if you could see stars. They are quite relaxing and invite people to be more intimist. People talk about thigs that they do not share very often.
Simple things and actions are important for me too. So, a cup of coffee after all of it would be something nice and simple.
Perfection might requires a gentleman, so he would have practiced how to be one for while before getting to his date. He would take me for dinner in an fancy, but not uncomfortable, restaurant, where we could talk for a longe time enjoiyng our meal. Then, it would be very interesting going to a quite place, where we could get to know each other without worrying about the crowd. It could be a park, the top of roof of a building... Actually, that would be very interesting if you could see stars. They are quite relaxing and invite people to be more intimist. People talk about thigs that they do not share very often.
Simple things and actions are important for me too. So, a cup of coffee after all of it would be something nice and simple.
Sergio Martinez
My Perfect date.
A perfect date for me will be with the perfect women with amazing vibe. I thing will be better if do not planning to much dating. That main you have to improvise all the time. A perfect date is when you do not care about the place and time. For me the most important is her, also is very important how I make her feel. I only need a excuse to see her like:
Firtly, I will like to invite her to have a dinner in a nices places. Defenitely the places have to be nice and of course the food have to be great. But the atmosphere have to be great such as the music, the lights and decorations. After that we can have some drinks.
A perfect date for me will be with the perfect women with amazing vibe. I thing will be better if do not planning to much dating. That main you have to improvise all the time. A perfect date is when you do not care about the place and time. For me the most important is her, also is very important how I make her feel. I only need a excuse to see her like:
Firtly, I will like to invite her to have a dinner in a nices places. Defenitely the places have to be nice and of course the food have to be great. But the atmosphere have to be great such as the music, the lights and decorations. After that we can have some drinks.
Wednesday, 4 January 2012
LUCY
In those kinds of relationships it is difficult to ask them to stop any contact or friendship because they have been together half of their lives and they have lots of things in common, like their children. Even though they are adults now, both are part of their life. They must have had a very good loving relationship so it is hard to cut that connection unless you had asked him to do that in the beginning. His ex wife could have manipulated him when she discovered that he was leaving her. Then he couldn't have had any option and as time passed they got used to having a loving friendship. You should talk with him and tell him what are you feeling right now with that relationship, because the only thing that makes it perfectly acceptable to have a close friendship are their children, but they are grow up now. So he needs to think about your feelings but you need to say them.
Andres
Taking into consideration their long marriage, it's difficult to think that if the couple has decided to split up or brake up that the relationship would have disappeared, specially if they have children.
Obviously,the fact that they got divorce it means that both of them have the right to rebuild their lives, and if any one does it, the ex couple must respect the new life of the other partner.
Nevertheless, we have to considered that everyone must have respect for their own new relationship and in this case i think that it's the main issue.
I'm not saying that the contact between your partner and his ex wife has to be cut off, because they have children and they will always have a bond, but she needs to let him go. She needs to understand that he has a new life and he must look after that, otherwise could lost it. However, the first person that has to be completely convinced of that is your man.
If he had made it clear since the beginning, you wouldn't have got in this situation. He has to clarify the situation with her and be decisive and consistent with that.
Obviously,the fact that they got divorce it means that both of them have the right to rebuild their lives, and if any one does it, the ex couple must respect the new life of the other partner.
Nevertheless, we have to considered that everyone must have respect for their own new relationship and in this case i think that it's the main issue.
I'm not saying that the contact between your partner and his ex wife has to be cut off, because they have children and they will always have a bond, but she needs to let him go. She needs to understand that he has a new life and he must look after that, otherwise could lost it. However, the first person that has to be completely convinced of that is your man.
If he had made it clear since the beginning, you wouldn't have got in this situation. He has to clarify the situation with her and be decisive and consistent with that.
Thursday Task
Read this person's problem below. Make some guesses about their past and then give them some advice.
Two years ago, my man left his 22-year marriage to be with me, but he told me he loved his former wife and would always want a friendship with her. I accepted that (I'm friends with my ex), but I'm bothered by the amount of contact they have. They do have two adult children and own property together. But, although she's living with a new partner, she sometimes wants to borrow his car, have him pick up the dogs, or drop off some paperwork. They phone about every other day, and not a week goes by without his stopping over -- occasionally for a family dinner. I get plenty of his time, energy and affection, and I know their relationship isn't romantic. The issue is split loyalty -- all the effort he's putting into remaining "loving friends" with a woman who'd love to see our relationship fail. Am I being petty and jealous? It feels like she's clinging hard -- and so is he.
Two years ago, my man left his 22-year marriage to be with me, but he told me he loved his former wife and would always want a friendship with her. I accepted that (I'm friends with my ex), but I'm bothered by the amount of contact they have. They do have two adult children and own property together. But, although she's living with a new partner, she sometimes wants to borrow his car, have him pick up the dogs, or drop off some paperwork. They phone about every other day, and not a week goes by without his stopping over -- occasionally for a family dinner. I get plenty of his time, energy and affection, and I know their relationship isn't romantic. The issue is split loyalty -- all the effort he's putting into remaining "loving friends" with a woman who'd love to see our relationship fail. Am I being petty and jealous? It feels like she's clinging hard -- and so is he.
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