Wednesday, 7 March 2012
Isabel
Well, the first question is, do you really trust him?, because I think that could be the problem. You relationship didn't start very well. He was married, you got in the middle of his relationship, so maybe you think he can do it again, why not? he did it once!. About his ex-wife, what do you want me to say? why don't you try to put yourself into her place?, be the friend of the woman who stole the father of her children?, of course she doesn't want your relationship to succeed. Maybe their marriage was over when you met him, but I think it's the normal reaction, she will never be your friend. Anyway they have two children in common, so they have to care about them "together", take decissions "together", and spend time "together", wich I think it's not the point here. The problem it's not the time he spends with his ex-wife and children, that was the backpacket he came with when you met him, and as you say, it's not the time he spends with you, soy maybe the real problem is "you". If you have started weighting all those things is because this is the begining of the end. Think about it.
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Vianny: You are right!!! but he should think about the decision before left his first family.
ReplyDeleteYes, if he made that decision, he had to think about his new life and all the things that it included.
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Marlon: I understand your assessment of the situation, but I have the belief that people can find solutions. To simply say 'this is the situation, love it or leave it' is not constructive. This situation is new, it is an experiment. They must find their way together. The husband's loyalty is to his children and new partner, not his ex. He must spend time with his partner and give them enough space to have their own lives, which the children will be part of. He and his ex are friends, but he should not take the role of her new partner. He made a decision to be with a new woman. He must embrace that with all his heart.
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