After reading your post I was in shock, how can you let them do that? Firstly, I would recommend you to be a little bit selfish and start thinking about yourself. With this I mean that despite the situation can be confusing, you should try to speak with your partner and, as long as you can, try to drive him to think about how it would be the oposite situation.
Moreover, if this doesn't work, you should try the second stage of the solution. This might be more dramatic, so, take a seat. Propose your partner to move to another city, state or country ( If you consider it necessary ). This should be useful in the way that you are going to separate them and, as you know, long distances makes everything colder.
If you are reading this paragraph is because none of the previous advices work. Don't worry about that, we need to start the third stage, are you ready?. You should start to make a new and very close friend to try to make him jealous. Doing this, you should have two different reactions:
-The first could be the easiest one, he realise about your situation and start changing his relationship.
-The second might be that you start feeling something for the new guy.
Finally, the last option that you can try if all of these advices didn't work, is to start thinking about leaving your partner and falling in love with the new guy that you should have met if you had followed the THIRD stage.
I hope you could take advantage of my advices. I look forward to hearing about you.
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Emma : I'm sure you're helping the girl so much...she'll laught!! aha are looking to be the new guy?? i like the way you explain the THIRD stage. But i think she can take a better decision before moving in an other country ;)
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ReplyDeletemove to another city, another country? I am sure they could find another solution, remember he has two children, probably he would never accept that point. About make him jelaous, be careful, sometimes things don't go as you think....that could be dangerous!
I love your advice! But I think it's perhaps a bit exaggerated to move to another coutry... :D
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DeleteVianny: Your advise was really directly but those are quite extreme, i think the problem is not so big!!! =D
ReplyDeleteMarlon: I am impressed with your advice Marcos. Although, I feel it may be a little radical. Maybe the lady should think about faking her death to get him interested ... maybe a dash of kidnapping ... or even a fourth option ... murder!! Oh my! How far will it go? :P
ReplyDeleteYour advice is really interesting.
ReplyDeleteAbout the third stage, this stategy is usually used when a girlfriend want her boyfriend to be jealous and remind him that he can lose her. But I don't know if this is the proper way because their relationship is already weak now, this might give her husband excuse for leaving her and be closer to his ex-wife.
Shan